We meet many people every day, but only a few people are affecting us. For such people, we say that the person has got a pleasing personality. People with such personality are often happy and they are respected everywhere, they are liked, invited to parties and they get promotions too early in the job. Naturally, we would all like to have such a personality and today I am sharing in my article these 10 such points which can help you to get an attractive personality.
1. Do What People Genuinely Like
When we meet someone, then try to make an image of that person in mind. This image can be positive, negative, or neutral. But if we wish to improve our personality, then we have to make this image intentionally positive. We have to train our mind that it is not sinful to find good in people. This is not so difficult to do, if you give directions to the mind to find good, then he will find out.
We should be diligent with people, instead of being irritated by any deficit or shortcoming, we should keep ourselves in their place. Did you know if we had grown up in similar situations, then it would be like that !!! Therefore, celebrate differences of opinion and do not get irritated with them.
Friends, the spreading negativity around us all greatly influences us, we hear news of theft, cheating, fraud, and that is why this is the reason why the man is getting the confidence from the man. I do not say that you trust the people blindly, but I must say that do not distrust people with closed eyes. Most people are good; At least they are with them who are good with them, make them good with you, do they like them, and they will do the same in return for you.
Ralph Waldo Emerson also said The person I get from is better than me in some form. So when everyone is advisable than us in some form, then it can be done like that!
2. Meet with Crisp
What happens when you meet your best friend? You smile seeing each other, is not it?
Smiling expresses that you like the front. The same thing applies in all kinds of relations, So whenever you meet someone (of course there are some exceptions) then take a genuine smile on the face, people will love you, they will be happy to come across you. If you do not get a grin in the response to your smile, it will be less, and if it happens then let it be you have to play your part well.
It would seem quite easy to hear, what to do, just a little smile, many logs do it naturally; But many people do not look at this little thing, and if you do not even do it, then take it into your practice. A smiling face is more attractive than a flat or relentless face and is very helpful in making your personality magnetic.
Smiling has another advantage, as per some research; When we are happy with the inside, our external expressions are changed accordingly, people see that we are happy, And the opposite is also true, that is, when we make our external expressions happy, then it affects our internal mood too and it gets better.
So, do not forget to take a sweet smile
3. Name is Meditation
For a person, his name is more important than all other names in the world. So, when you talk to someone, keep on taking the name of them in the conversation. Of course, if the person is senior to you, then you need to put a suffix or prefix required with the name.
In front of the middle name, the person may feel your importance and also give attention to you. And unquestionably, he would be happy with the fact that you are giving value to his name.
People usually Lacking when it comes to remembering the name, even after 2 minutes of knowing the name, people forget the names. It was basically because they did not try to remember the name; But now when you know the benefits and values, so you must try to remember the names after hearing them once. You also “Retrieve the importance of the name”, remembering the name gives you a very big edge.
4. Place “You” before “I”:
Which one would you like most: who talks about your meanings or whom you talk about?
Of course, you will choose the second option … Everybody is first engaged in keeping oneself … I am like this, I like it, I do it … isn’t it? But set apart it from you, keep “You” before “I”.
How are you? “What do you like, what do you do?
I bet, people would love you more than this. If you talk about them…
Not every famous person, but a common man also wants the audience … When you hear a common man you surely become special to him. And when you do this with so many people, you become special to many people and you become more than a somebody, you become a personality, a personality which everyone likes, whose charisma is influenced.
5. Listen Before Speaking
You can call it an expansion of point 4. When you take interest into others then it must be passionate and true and not the fake one.
You do not have to give an opportunity to speak before the front, but to listen carefully to it and to interact in the middle of it. For e.g: If someone says that he is fond of roaming, then you can ask him what is his favourite tourist destination, and which place is good there.
The demand for good listeners is never to a lesser extent, you become a good observer and see how your demand increases.
6. It is also important to Say How to Say
‘How you speak’ matters the most than’ what you speak’. For eg. If you make a mistake and you make a speech and say sorry, that sorry means nothing. We have to use not only accurate words but also to keep in head how it is being told.
So, observe your tone and body language, talk to people as polite and mannerly as possible.
Here I would also like to say that many people see the ability to speak English, relating to Personality, while it is not so, without them one can also become an influential person.
7. Help People without Thinking about their Advantage
Often, we are in a position to help others, but we do not help out of inactiveness or by thinking that we have no profit in it. But a person with an amusing personality is ready to help people. Yes, this does not mean that you have left your important work and helped the people, but if you can get some work if you give some time, you will surely come. Your selfless help will not only lift you in other’s eyes but you will also feel better.
8. Make your External Appearance Good
Since our first impression is made through our appearance, there is a need to pay a little attention to this point.
By Appearance, I do not mean that you must go to the gym and became muscular, or keep on walking around the beauty parlours, it simply means that you should select clothes according to the event and pay attention to personal cleanliness. Small things like your hairstyle, nails, and elegant shoes do affect your personality.
9. Find what you can appreciate
Whether I am you, or Mr. Bachchan, everyone likes to hear compliments. This is a great method to win people’s hearts and make your friend … Make an admiration, make a true compliment.
Well, we are referring to acclaim on the individual level here. If you look up, then everyone will see something to compliment you in; It can be anything – find his garden, collection of coins, the room decorated with upgrades, his smile, his name, it could be anything, so you will be able to see it right. And when you see it, do not sit still, instead, you can give it to anyone who wants it with heart … by doing so you will surely increase his happiness, make his day, and the biggest thing is that you can carry that work onward too. To give the fuel will give. If you feel hesitant speaking upfront, then send an SMS, or use e-mail, but if something is praiseworthy then praise it.
Yes, if you didn’t try it yet, then try to do it. As children also understand that you are doing true commemoration or false.
10. Continuous observation and improvement
Personality development is an ongoing process. We all have an infinite scope of improvement, so do not ever think that just now life has been going to improve, rather take some time for yourself to notice your activities, your words closely, what did you do, how did you do it better, etc.
For e.g.some people point out the flaws of others at that very moment when they noticed it, It would reduce their confidence; So one must improve on this point and will start listen patiently to others. You should also observe yourself progressively on this path, and make continuous improvements.
I hope these 10 belongings will help you to make your personality pleasant.
What to do now?
Now you have to practice these 10 things eventually. To start with, you can choose a point of your choice, keep in mind that focus only on one point at a time. After choosing it, apply it to real life. Keep an eye on yourself in your day-to-day activities and see if you really are able to apply it or not. When you do this for few days, lift the second point and now practice it. During this time, you have been applying the first point, but if he is missed then do not worry. At the moment, your focus is point 2, and that should not be missed.
In the same way, you keep practising the rest of the aforesaid ideas, and in a few months, you will find that you are able to meditate on all the things together. Just be patient and keep on poignant, and surely you will soon be the owner of a pleasant personality.
All the best!